It has everything to do with it. If your limiting belief is that I can’t achieve what I want in my business because;

I’m too busy, It’s just the way I am, or people just don’t understand me… reflecting on where these ideas came from and looking at if you are being authentic with yourself…. and if they are truly your beliefs…. may reveal something different for you.

Who are you really? What do you really believe? Lorraine Harvey has a wonderful story she tells in our recorded teleseminar which you can download by visiting one of our websites about how her daughter had a limiting belief around a simple subject that was passed down for generations. Generations! It is a great funny story of how true this can be for all of us! How one idea that is passed down determines how we see the world and what we accept as truth but whose truth is it really?

Where are you in your own way? What steps can you take to move forward? Understand your values, know where those beliefs came from and challenge everyone of them until you know at your core that those values are yours because only you are going to make the choice of how you will live.

Understanding that you are the reflection of who you believe you are is significant especially if you are looking for lasting change. So look at those beliefs to make damn sure they are yours and not your ancestors is a great place to start. lol

Yes…then there is something else….  A Big one….    

Confidence in ourselves and our abilities is everything! Becoming self aware you realize what you are really hiding, and what things are really limiting you from moving forward.

I talk about discovering your brilliance in the powerful thinking teleseminar and about how understanding your strengths is all about energy and creating that space of acceptance and self worth that then allows you to look at yourself in a whole new way.

Believing in yourself your skills and your brilliance, understanding your values and limiting beliefs …and pushing through your fears despite them… are all the vital ingredients for that success you are looking for in your business and personally… and when you find that strength in yourself you will begin to believe that anything is possible.

Now on the business side, once you are ready to take action for your business, here are 5 quick steps to help:

1. Ensure you have an exit strategy,
2. Make your marketing message clear,
3. Take advantage of social media and use it for promotion of your business
4. Understand who your target market is, and what their triggers are, and show them the benefits while creating emotion.
5. Think BIG!!! What are your big goals for the remaining year and next? You have to have big goals in order to move forward if you want to tap into more than just a small portion of the local market. What is your plan? What’s your strategy?

Some of my goals are to help people worldwide, and to become one of the biggest philanthropists in the area. So this will take work, perseverance and dedication, and my Drinks with Darcy program is one of the things that helps me get there. Some of the proceeds go to KIVA Loans, which help working poor around the world.

My Passion is working with business owners and entrepreneurs and looking at their business strengths to assess if they are working with a solid strategy for growth, and if not to plan ways to help them Rock their business.

You can hear more about these topics by downloading two different products which are  7 Blocks in Business and how to fix them! With Rose-Anne Kumpunen and myself.  You can go to www.businessblockbustersnow.com to access the free download and then purchase the full teleseminar recording. Our full program is coming soon so keep posted!!!!

You can also learn about Power Thinking, and steps to personal and business success by visiting www.strategicbizbuilder.com  or www.lorraineharveyseminars.com to purchase the download.  You can also find out more about what I do and sign up for my weekly EZINE on www.darcellerunciman.com  These programs are meant to help you get your business closer to the success you deserve by taking concrete steps towards learning how to create that framework for your business.

I look forward to working with more of you to help take your business to the next level. “Remember to Inspire yourself daily, Plan your business wisely, and Create a Living worth living for.” Darcelle

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Look at successful people what do they have in common? Every success comes down to confidence. They have confidence in who they are and what they do. Developing your confidence really are the keys to achieving anything you want. So how do we gain the confidence to achieve success and maintain a balance to our lives all at the same time?

Acquiring Confidence is about making choices and it comes down to 4 things:

1.      Understanding your Brilliance.

Understanding your “Brilliance” and what you are passionate about will allow you to apply more of what you enjoy doing into your work and will help build your confidence. I talk more about this in my ebook “Discover your Brilliance.” Knowing what you want and then having a plan to get there will help you fulfill your passion and inevitably lead to your success.

2.      Choosing to be Happy. Savour the simple things.

Happiness is a choice. Learning how to stay happy on the inside while going through a difficult time takes will and determination but it is possible. You may not enjoy the negative situation but if you choose happiness and peace, it will guide you through the process with more skill and ease. Happiness is what you choose to feel not matter what knocks you off course, and gives you the determination to get right back on again.

3.      Gratitude. Being thankful for what life gives you.

Being grateful for every opportunity, every relationship, every friendship will in the end help to increase your happiness and that will spill over and come across in how you feel about yourself. Your confidence will show and people will gravitate towards you. Being grateful shows the universe, spirit, and God, that we really care about the world and are appreciative of our lives. It is a choice to be grateful.

4.      Exercise. Without it we don’t release stress in our body.

Getting proper exercise and eating healthy truly reduces stress on our body. After a good workout we feel good, our body relaxes and we enjoy our day much better than just sitting at a desk. It helps our sleep patterns, and adds to our happiness, and relaxation.

These 4 steps help us to create more balance in our lives which gives us strength to move forward through whatever trials we have going on in our lives. It leads us down the path to happiness and growth. Confidence in believing in yourself and that knowing if you do, others will follow.  

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1. Watch the market and spot opportunities. Just be aware of what is going on, not tied to the T.V. Recessions can mean business closings however it also means those with experience and knowledge can build a strong company . People will continue to spend they are just more cautious so knowing your market and do not reduce your prices but ensure you are giving quality for what your clients are paying for and be innovative.

2. Think creatively. You must have your thinking cap on overdrive. Brainstorm with a partner or mentor like crazy! Albert Einstein once said, “Imagination is more important than knowledge.” People will stay home more, spend differently so tapping into that with products or services that assist people to do just that will assist the customer. Come up with solutions to detract from the negatives as everyone still loves to be pampered. An example could be, offering home delivery of products or services.

3. Diversify. Think proactively and about abundance not scarcity. Do not cut quality or costs. Competition may fold, however you have an opportunity to fill the gap, step in and be seen and assist your target market.

4.  Take Action. Taking action is key, and being quick and adaptable to change. Launch new products and innovative ideas. You will then be in a strong position when the market turns. Now do not go out and spend extra money to achieve these goals. Think rationally but do take action.

5. Get good value for your money. Look for free or cheap publicity to market your business, be creative on money saving strategies as well for your business. Feel good about your business.

6. Expand & Start new ventures. Recruit the best, expand your business, with grants or government funding. Expanding a business is a wonderful idea, but a really great way to expand without spending excessively is to instead buy client lists. Some competitors are willing to sell, however buying a client list for a competitor is possible.

Think ahead, be smart but take action toward fulfilling your goals and keep a close eye on overheads, staff, and sales. Remember customers needs are still there, and learning how to tap into them can bring golden opportunities.

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We spoke about confidence and what he finds with people in business and how he helps people to understand where to begin the process of looking for those things that limit them. Philip talked about making change and why it can sometimes be difficult for people to do so.

Philip is also a real estate investor who has invested in 6 countries around the globe. He has a new book coming out this year on real estate called South of 49… A story about residential real estate investing across the border.

Confidence is an important part in the new book The Power of Women United which I co-wrote with 21 other wonderful, professional ladies. Within the pages confidence comes up often as something everyone wants and for some due to experiences in life, or in childhood, gain it much earlier than most. The many stories in this book can relate to every woman out there whether she is in business or not. It is a tribute to the lessons learned and the ability for everyone to reach their goals.

One of the many comments that Philip made today that made us think was “some people are achieving goals they set out in the wrong direction and they are running towards it!” It really is the truth, taking time to “be still” as I call it and quieting the mind is the only real time we can look back and assess what we really want and if we are on the right path. I believe that is where you will find your passion or brilliance, and one of Philip’s keynotes is about your Pursuit of Wealth and Happiness.

Regardless of the name assigned to it, (as all are important) finding that quiet space, and looking at blocks or limiting beliefs that hold us back is one of the first steps to finding yourself, your confidence, and the life you deserve.

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A big part of many of our decisions on whether or not to change is based on fear. There are times where it is our limited beliefs. What is holding us back can be their fear around those beliefs. For example if our fear is change then perhaps changing one thing could change our lives but just knowing that is enough to keep us from moving forward to the next level. We tell ourselves so many things to at times negate us from moving forward. Understanding if the beliefs you are having are real or imagined can lead into many insights on what the truth for you is, and possibly what your true real purpose is. So what does it take to find out your beliefs and if they are holding you back?

Focus….

The Power of Focus can be incredible and can lead to great success. So while I believe that women have a special gift of networking and relationship building, I believe that one of a man’s strength that I often see is in the gift of focus that I believe we can learn from.

So take time to focus on what is limiting your belief system. Look to experts to help you get past those blocks be it a hypnotist or a guide you can work with to look into deep rooted beliefs that may be holding you back. Once you have focused in on those items and conquer them through persistence and good habits, you will then find your own truth and path. Enjoying the process is the best part because you will learn so much about yourself along the way.

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"Powered By Inspiration"

I have many wonderful experiences with many learnings as well along the way. Live your life like you mean it as it’s the only one we have. Be inspired by the things around you, friends, family, business acquaintances and others. Be outside in nature or in whatever situation that brings you joy on a daily basis. This weekend’s Adventure Business Retreat was an inspiration for me. I learned as much as we taught on this beautiful sunny weekend. I thank all the ladies for their openness and laughter they brought to the table. Rose-Anne Kumpunen was great leading us into the perfect mediation to start off the weekend. I spoke on Discovering Your Brilliance. Denise Franklin spoke on ways to effectively network in business and Aprille Janes walked us through a beautiful session on exploration and leading us to our creative side. It was a blast. My personal tagline is “Live Life on Fire” and that is because once I made the “mind shift” to be more and that it was ok to discover my own personal brilliance, only then have I been living my passion. I hope to help others become as inspired as I have been by the many wonderful people in my life. Cheers.

There are some practical steps that on a micro level we can do to keep that confidence strong and move our business forward to living the life we want and boost our confidence regardless of what on a macro level is happening out there, that will make it feel as easy as hitting the easy button.

1. Remind yourself on a daily basis of the things you have done well. What did you accomplish today that moved you in a positive direction? Focus only on what you do well, what your strengths are and what comes easy to you.

2. Gratitude is everything. The more grateful we are the more inspiring the little things in our lives become. If someone gives you a compliment, say thank you and keep it zipped! Be grateful for everything you have in your life that gives you joy. No matter how desperate things get there are still positive lessons in that adversity where we can learn. With gratitude naturally also comes the desire to share which is always a great thing.

3. Read only motivating material! There is no EASY button in watching the news! Stop immediately. Whatever is important and happening in the world you will find out however watching the news on a daily basis misses how much abundance there is in the world. There are many of us out there doing just fine thank you very much and attitude has a lot to do with that. Read motivational quotes on a daily basis, read only positive stories, articles and things that will inspire your soul.

4. Build a group of likeminded people around you. This adds to the support and boost that we all need. Our Excellence Mastermind Network, as many others out there are designed just for that purpose. To have a supportive business group of people who are there for each other with business ideas, joint ventures, linking each other to the resources we need and building that core team of support. Think of it as your cocoon to growth.

5. Motivate yourself and stretch your stride to achieve goals. A great way to do this is with a focusing partner. Getting things done on your list on a weekly basis is a huge confidence builder. Picking 3 or 4 items to make a priority each week really helps put you in high gear. It’s about perseverance and having a partner there to push you when you need the support or even simply having someone there to listen.

These are some important first steps to lead you down the success trail and on your way to hitting the easy button more often. Remember once you have a good stride and have stretched yourself during the week, always take time to celebrate the wins for the week which is very important as it will help you to increase your energy reserve to move forward each day. WANT TO USE THIS ARTICLE IN YOUR E-ZINE OR WEB SITE? Feel Free. Simply include this blurb with it: Darcelle Runciman is Author, Mentor and CEO of DarcelleRunciman.com.  Darcelle  mentors entrepreneurs and small business owners how to use systems and their brilliance to increase their profits and create mo*ney making businesses by showing you steps to take to gain clarity and retain that balance that we all strive for. Darcelle works with groups, through tele-classes, through her online products, and her Adventure Mentoring Programs. For more information visit www.darcellerunciman.com and sign up for her Fr*ee audio on 12 -Tips to Profiting in Business, and her Fr*ee Ezine “Inspired Business”.

We walk through life so often with such a weight on our shoulders and many times it is a weight we place on ourselves of fear, shame, feeling like we are alone… when in fact this is not the case. I loved the story today because despite the debilitating disease he is triumphing.

In the realm of dispair there is always hope, caring, love, support you just have to be open to it.

I have a friend who for the second time has fought cancer and I couldn’t be more proud of her! Hearing it was completely gone was very surreal for me having lost a good friend already once. A blessing indeed… What saved her was her outlook on life and a determination to succeed in educating herself to eat and live healthy, and take care of her health on her terms and to always search for answers. I too have faced such a fight in my life for 26 years quietly battling Endometriosis and finally free! Why do I share this after all this time? It was once said that in adversity lies opportunity. I believe that once a person goes through the fires it changes you. For myself, like my friend and similar to Montel, I to this day say that it was the greatest gift as a learning and a wake up of what life is really about. I changed that last day of the old self 10 years ago. It is how we handle that adversity that tells the story, it is in that pain that you can really feel the inspirational support of what it truly feels like to be alive. What a wonderful gift of learning life can be about if we have our eyes wide open and willing to listen.  Mahatma Gandhi once said “The future depends on what we do in the present” So remember to celebrate life NOW and Live a Life on Fire!

Darcelle Runciman is a Business Mentor and Author check out her blog or free articles at www.darcellerunciman.com